It's midnight and you are having a tough conversation with your relationship partner because they have been ill-treating you throughout your relationship by ignoring you, always letting you down, and breaking your trust, and you are mortified about it. After all, you know that this is happening only because he or she knows that you are weak and ain't courageous enough to leave them and move on. They are just using this fact to manipulate you and aren't able to do anything.
You all will agree that we are in a relationship or friendship several times where we are ill-treated but still try to make things correct with them, only because we ain't courageous enough to make a move that could free us from all this bullshit. Well, take a deep breath and ask yourselves are they worthy enough of the efforts you are making for them because you are ruining your springtime just by being stuck with people who aren't worthy of the efforts. If you spend all these efforts on yourselves, you would be able to become your best version.
Several people will counter the above situation by saying that "It ain't that easy as it seems, they have been with them for a long time and they weren't the person at that time as they are now." And that maybe is a valid point because a person might change over time but "Being with the person for a long time" can't be the only reason to stay with someone, who doesn't value you anymore. And the only move you are scared to make can help find yourself instead of finding yourself in other people and do remember "Kuch Dooriyaan Jaruri Hoti Hai."
The problem of "Being Stuck" is not only in the case of relationships or friendship but also in the case of things you are pursuing or you wish to pursue. Let me give you a simple situation, you are an amazing ukulele player and have got the opportunity to perform at a number of shows by god's grace. You receive an offer from a great music producer to work with him but the take is he has to give up his 9 to 5 job and only focus on this, all of us including me will make a point by stating that he should go for this opportunity but for that person, the situation is not gonna be that easy as he has been stuck in that 9 to 5 job since a long time and it's gonna take a lot of courage to leave everything behind and choose it. But even though it's gonna be tough, it will be worth it.
At last, remember that "There Is Nothing Worse Than Being Stuck Where You Don't Belong; So Take That Step And Move On."
Signing Off
Parminder Singh.
well written!